Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Running out of topic? DSNT!

Days back, sis asked me what if i'm running out of topic with my girl? She asked this because sometimes being alone with her hubby in the car,they didnt talk much or both of them not or stop talking to each others.

Angel asked me about it few days back too, i mean days before sis asked. He did mention that at some point or years later couples just stop talking. What to do with it?

The other day, i asked my girl, what if we have ran out of topic and not talking to each others? My girl responded, sometimes silence doesnt mean not communicating.

If i remember correctly i read a book from Dr John Gray on 'Mars and Venus on a Date'. Dr John did mention it's actually the differences make the couple together. They are different in a sense but complementary in other sense. That's why he claimed 'Men are from Mars;Women are from Venus.'

From what've stated above, i would think that the root cause is mostly because in a long run, couples might be too comfortable to the situation they have been in. They do what they like ie. i do what i like and you do what you like... It's a routine for them to do what they,each others, like. In a sense, they've stopped communicating in the right way.

If you've encountered this kind of situation, try this -> just "Do Something New Together(DSNT)". Something new means both of you have never try it before. Things that're Totally new to both of you. Hobbies will be the best choice! Thru the process, you will find the differences and complements;furthermore, you've got a new topic to talk to.

Try it and you will never know. :)

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