Peace...
Thursday, December 31, 2015
Monday, December 28, 2015
正能量:七十年代后为人父母的...应该读!
生为一个七十年代后出生的人,在这人间也过了一半。想起往年父母的教诲,犹如昨天。感概万千...
往往想起...
"妈/爸,我想试试做生意(或某某事或与现况很大差别的事)..."
父母的回应往往都很负面;不行;你办不到;最常见的莫过于给小伙子拨冷水等等。
年轻小伙子,血气方刚,求变的心是值得赞赏的。 但往往父母的负面回应真的很难另小伙子们信服。严重的两代的代溝就由此而生。
对!父母没错因为他们先儿忧而忧,后儿喜而喜!
小伙子不服;父母又不把话说清楚...
小伙子认为:你不支持我!你不懂!你不了解我!你小看我!...
父母认为:你不知天高地厚!犬子不怕虎!胡思乱想!不可理喻!...
...最后不欢而散!
该怎么办?!
换换口味吧!...
由父母作起!!
第一, 听那乳臭未乾的小伙子讲完他的计划再给意见
第二,只要不是伤天害理的别说不能(还没试什么不能?父母有预知神通?)
第三,意见应着重于为什么不能,什么挑战等等
第四,应该怎么应付那些挑战?
记得回答要尽量从应该怎么做开始,不要马马虎虎答不可行!
小伙子需要的是指引不是负面回应更不是得到父母的鼓励与否!!!
小伙子们,除了父母那句马虎的不行外都应该考虑父母提出的挑战与应对方法,然后敢敢去试!输了再试、试了再试、再输再试!!!
"Every men dies; not every men really lives..."
杂八郎
Sunday, December 20, 2015
Whenever I See This Image I...
Firstly, remember a picture is a picture it will never tell you the whole story...it is inconclusive until you know the whole story.
To me, this image served as a warning to myself that I should not be such an inconsiderate person in any kind of situation...
In future, if you manage to snap a photo of my car doing the same thing...
I would like to tell you that, a picture is a picture it will never tell you the whole story until you know the whole story
AND FINALLY
PLEASE ALSO WARN YOURSELF THAT YOU SHOULD NOT BE SUCH AN INCONSIDERATE PERSON IN ANY KIND OF SITUATION.
Saturday, December 19, 2015
Friday, December 18, 2015
Wednesday, December 16, 2015
Saturday, December 12, 2015
人生的无可奈何
妈走后,阿姨说:"人,一个人来,一个人去!" 无可奈何!
爸知病重后说了一句:"人生就是这样..." 过后也走了...无可奈何!
打从第一天到这世界,就往这条路走,不论过程怎样多姿多彩;怎样平平凡凡;都没什么重不重要;都是自己硬硬要但有时偏偏要不到;就算要到了,不知不觉已走到最后...又到了人生就是这样...
Friday, December 11, 2015
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