Monday, December 28, 2015

正能量:七十年代后为人父母的...应该读!

生为一个七十年代后出生的人,在这人间也过了一半。想起往年父母的教诲,犹如昨天。感概万千...

往往想起...
"妈/爸,我想试试做生意(或某某事或与现况很大差别的事)..."
父母的回应往往都很负面;不行;你办不到;最常见的莫过于给小伙子拨冷水等等。

年轻小伙子,血气方刚,求变的心是值得赞赏的。 但往往父母的负面回应真的很难另小伙子们信服。严重的两代的代溝就由此而生。

对!父母没错因为他们先儿忧而忧,后儿喜而喜!

小伙子不服;父母又不把话说清楚...

小伙子认为:你不支持我!你不懂!你不了解我!你小看我!...
父母认为:你不知天高地厚!犬子不怕虎!胡思乱想!不可理喻!...
...最后不欢而散!

该怎么办?!

换换口味吧!...

由父母作起!!
第一, 听那乳臭未乾的小伙子讲完他的计划再给意见
第二,只要不是伤天害理的别说不能(还没试什么不能?父母有预知神通?)
第三,意见应着重于为什么不能,什么挑战等等
第四,应该怎么应付那些挑战?

记得回答要尽量从应该怎么做开始,不要马马虎虎答不可行!

小伙子需要的是指引不是负面回应更不是得到父母的鼓励与否!!!

小伙子们,除了父母那句马虎的不行外都应该考虑父母提出的挑战与应对方法,然后敢敢去试!输了再试、试了再试、再输再试!!!

"Every men dies; not every men really lives..."

杂八郎

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